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Sat 31 Jan, 2009 12:30 pm
My philosophical thoughts, on the basis of the doctrine about love, a shower and heart of Muhiddin Ibn Al-Arabi (1165-1240).
Hearts (in arabic - khalb) women and men the different. Usually in heart of the woman there is a Divine presence of God, and in heart of the man there is a Beloved of God - (Nur), in an environment of the Divine Pole (in arabic - khutb) (according to Ibn Al-Arabi), that is prophetical souls (Gemmy of Wisdom). Hearts of men different, depending on what prophet is available for it on heart. And in this connection at approach of soul of heart, the man gets those or other character traits of the corresponding prophet, whose presence at it on heart. Hearts of women identical, there there is only a Divine Presence. When there is a mutual attraction of hearts of the man and the woman, that is an attraction of God and Nur to each other souls of the enamoured are involved in feeling Divine Love.
The first stage of love consists of love on a basis sexual (NATURAL LOVE OR ANIMAL LOVE - sexual, love to riches, career, glory, love to the native land, love to the children for women). The second stage consists FROM SEXUAL, And OF SINCERE LOVE (PSYCHOPHYSIOLOGICAL - kindness, conscience, mercy etc. loves because of sincere qualities,) . Also it is possible to carry love to the children to sincere love at men, to parents, leaders, friends. The third stage of love includes SEXUAL, SINCERE LOVE (PSYCHOPHYSICAL), and DIVINE LOVE - Special Love between the Creator and the Beloved of the Creator-God. Perhaps, that one or two kinds of love, can be and not to be AT CERTAIN STAGES. For example, at the third stage can be only SEXUAL and DIVINE LOVE, without SINCERE LOVE. Or at all to do without the first and second stage, at once the third stage, that is all kinds of love all together. For example, if two fall in love on the third stage it usually name LOVE At first sight.
Example: - If the woman says that the husband is pleasant to it, and sexually is attractive too, but sincere qualities at it are not so developed. She says that the husband not such clever, fair or bad, but he is loved of her in this case at them is sexial and display of Divine Love, but is not present sincere love, or it on a low level. Usually sincere love develops into Divine Love, but can be and so that owing to features of development of soul of the individual that two love at once Divine Love. It depends on spiritual level of enamoured individuals. Just as sexual, can outgrow in sincere love. It depends on intellectual level of enamoured individuals. That is thanks to sexual relations and intelligence, the natural love (sexual) can outgrow in sincere love. And then sincere love in Divine.