@gera2008,
Gera,
Do you think they're using this expression "woman is a man's friend" to make women seem
more like societal equals to men? Or are they using it to mean a 'lesser companion' like a dog?
Having been to Russia, by the way, my impression is that women are
by far the dominant force there. I can't speak for Belarus, but in Moscow and in St. Petersburg, whoa. Those old ladies in the corners at the museums can kill with an angry glance!
Anyway, being the exisentialist-sympathizer that I am, I'm not keen on exploring the 'essence of women' as you've phrased it in the original post. I think that by and large we are what we make of ourselves.