@darebrokenheart,
Welcome DBH!
Don't buy the Droid for the camera, because it sucks out loud. Shoots video in DVD quality, but the still shots are decent for a 1 or 2 MP camera, not a 5.
The Droid pulls in my Hotmail like a charm, opens links and displays webpages like a laptop. All on wi-fi while at home!
All in all I miss the Dare's ability to handle my music and arrange everything in CD order... the Droid is having some issues with that early on with a lot of "unknown album"s and putting songs in the wrong place. Oh well, learning curve and lots of firmware fixes ahead for sure! But I am getting over my Dare quickly as I discover more and more what this phone can do.