@Rockhead,
Rockhead wrote:
"Once, when I was 11, I was molested on a bus
from L.A. to Phoenix, Arizona; we got off and got a motel room
at one of the rest stops."
Dave, if you are serious, that's terrible.
if you're not serious, that's terrible also...
are you serious?
Yes; sure; I don' t see humor there.
What is your reasoning in saying that it was terrible?
Our lives r the accumulation of significant experiences.
I 'm glad that I had it. In my vu, then and now: it was hedonically valuable;
later that year, a 23 year old girl came on to me in her home
near L.A.; that was good too.
On other occasions, when I was approached
by people I did not like, I did not accept. I have never had sex forced on me.
The perpetrator woud have been
shot.
(I can think of once when I was 9, that I played a joke, a prank out of it for a laff.)
Sometimes, its enuf to just say no and be polite.
Other times u have to yell at them or thay stay with u.
This has applied to homosexuals who approach u in the street
and ask for directions then stay with u, instead of following the directions.
If I expressed that in a way to suggest that I did not welcome it,
(the girl on the bus to Phoenix), then I apologize for that.
There is and there was no chance that I 'd have accepted sex
from someone I did not want.
David