@Joe Nation,
Joe Nation wrote:
Um, it's the boy's job to find it. Right?
Joe(I'm listening to what you are screaming.)Nation
Why is it the boy's job?
I mean, if it exists, and they find it, it's great.
But I don't think the sole burden lies on them.
Personally speaking, when I read about the thing (after I heard friends speak positively about the benefits...I assumed it was crap when I first read about it) I had a go at finding it myself.
And certainly found something matching the description, at least re position and texture.
Seems to me boys do better with maps.
Seriously....I am really surprised at the notion that women might depend on men to work out stuff to do with their own sexual responses.
It's fantastic if men DO it, and fantastic when they find new and delightful things for me...but I'd never thought of just hanging round and waiting for them to do all the work.