@boomerang,
Quote:Even though I disagree with Mr. Barry's vote, I respect his reasons for making it.
I agree. I also strongly disagree with the remark in the quoted piece about an elected representative "leading." Damned few offices in this country implicitly require leadership which would contradict the wishes of the electorate, and i for one would only consider that the Presidency had such a roll, and then only in limited circumstances.
There is also something to be said for the power of making people face up to their decisions. If acknowledging same-sex marriage is antithetical to the beliefs of Mr. Barry's constituents, he should respond to that--and if it causes problems for them, perhaps they'll change their minds. If it doesn't create any problems for them, Mr. Berry will still have done what he was elected to do.
Theodore Roosevelt, Jr. was appointed one of the four police commissioners of New York in the 1880s. There were two from each party. He was probably the most active of the four, and quickly drew public attention. At that time, New York had a "Sunday blue law," which meant you couldn't serve beer or other strong drinks on a Sunday. Taverns put out a few sandwiches, called it a meal, and poured the beers as fast as they could, claiming they were only serving a beverage with a meal. Roosevelt made the cops go in and shut these people down, and the city howled. The city also changed its ordinance. Roosevelt's comment was that the quickest way to get rid of a bad law is to enforce it.
I don't think this is one of those situations. I don't think failure to recognize same sex marriages will work any hardship on the citizens of the District of Columbia. And i think Mr. Berry was obliged to respect their wishes. His "leadership" on such an issue would only alienate those who elected him.