@engineer,
I have no idea why you wrote your first sentence in this response. It is (or ought to have been) obvious from what i wrote that i know what he is responsible for, and what is demanded of him by his responsibilities. That is why i used the word competent. It seems to me that you are obsessed with arguing this case, and aren't paying much attention to the meanings of what i write. You just want to tell me i'm wrong in every way.
You may not intend to dictate to me, but when you take a didactic tone, i'm going to object to it, every time. I have no reason to assume that there is anything you can teach me about human nature, especially as it relates to politics.
Your remarks about "the way things have always been" are not applicable here. The issue of same sex marriage, and the separate issue of full faith and credit between jurisdictions on the subject of same sex marriages are issues 0f very recent date.
Your remarks about DD and his posts are a pathetic attempt at sarcasm. I was simply pointing out that i was willing to, but really saw no necessity, to argue with you about a point DD brought up, and which you hadn't mentioned.
The local school board can't bus your children without appropriate authority, and especially not against you wishes. Busing has been a phenomenon of court-ordered desegregation programs, and it was on that higher authority that school boards were required to take actions which might have been against the wishes of those who elected them.
Otherwise, school boards can only do that which is in their power when they are elected, and the electorate knows, or ought to know, the limits of that power. It is, or it ought to be, a consideration of those who vote for them. If this is not the case, that is the fault of the ignorance or indifference of the voter. None of that abrogates the point that i have been making that at the lower levels of government, at all but the highest levels of government, this is a democracy in which the electorate don't care for innovation from those whom they elected except in those cases where someone is elected with the understanding that they will innovate. That is, of course, my opinion, but it is not a uninformed opinion.