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Should persons accused of child sex abuse be presumed guilty?

 
 
hawkeye10
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 08:37 pm
@rydinearth,
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The reason I opened this thread the way I did, was to demonstrate that I do NOT in any way condone the sexual abuse of children. I think these monsters should have their balls nailed to the wall!! But my point is, that our zeal to prevent this kind of abuse has resulted in an absolute travesty of the American constitutional rule of law


You are partly correct, we are willing to burn down everything in our effort to protect the dear little children from the boogie men. However, in our solution we prove that we don't have even a faint understanding of the nature of the problem. Those who abuse are sick, as in ill. The solution is to produce fewer ill people. I don't believe the conventional wisdom that those who are perps of abuse can not be helped, that we need to lock them up forever or at least destroy their lives by hounding them constantly. But even if those who become abusers can never be saved we can still solve the problem over a few generations, if we can interrupt the abuser creation process.

The reason that we don't wise up is the same reason we don't wise up about our asinine drug laws......the citizens don't want to think about (deal with) the problems, and those who have a vested interest in the current program (the law and order professions for drugs, and the child saviours for abuse) would rather protect their job than solve the problems. Because we grant lobbyists such extraordinary power in our political system solutions are decided by those who have a financial stake in the outcome, not by those who understand the problem the best. Until America becomes a less corrupt society problems such as abuse will not be solved.
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ossobuco
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 08:46 pm
@rydinearth,
I get you, or think I do, rydinearth.

I've dealt with false accusation in my family. The mother admitted this to me some years later, re being sorry. Horrendous difficulty played out over years and years and years.
Ticomaya
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 08:55 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
What a dickhead . . .

What a petulant little bitch ...

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...but we already knew that.

Who's we? You can't be that fat ...

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I was merely making an observation, i was neither offering a comprehensive view of incarceration policies, nor offering legal advice.

I don't care. I merely gave correct information. You're an insecure little boy who felt compelled to massage your own ego by awarding me "quibble points."

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But you're so obsessed with making personal attacks on me and what i post, that i doubt that you'll let it go. Why don't you make some more invidious comments about my appearance? That's about your speed, and indicative of just how deeply in the slime your character is lodged.

As you wish.
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ossobuco
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:08 pm
@ossobuco,
So, are either of you talkin with ridinearth?
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ossobuco
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:09 pm
@ossobuco,
So, are either of you talking with ridinearth?
dlowan
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:16 pm
@rydinearth,
So, it's a "I say so" with the magnitude, then?


I assume you are American.

I do not live in the US...I know you have had some miscarriages of justice there...but again, your claims appear way beyond what is believable..and you give no evidence at all.

ossobuco
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:23 pm
@ossobuco,
In my situation, I was out in the lobby while it all went down, since I was not immediate family nor was my husband, the accused's brother. I'm still enraged, many years later. I was in the room for a bit, with my niece represented by a female attorney, and her mother so represented. Oh, and the judge was female.

To no avail, as the mother accuser apologized to me, long after, and I can understand her too.

I'm a woman and reasonably feminist, but I get it that this stuff can be hurled.
(In our situation, there was a prompter, as you can get him for money.)
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dlowan
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:25 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:

Give yourself two quibble points. My only point to Boom is that people who are considered innocent until proven guilty are not necessarily suffering an assumption of guilt in enduring pre-trial incarceration.


ARE many people accused of child sexual abuse held in prison awaiting trial in the US?

That would be a very small number here.

People accused of MURDERING someone are not necessarily held in prison here!

As Tico says, there is an assessment of risk they pose to others, or to witnesses, and flight risk.
rydinearth
 
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Fri 6 Mar, 2009 10:59 pm
@dlowan,
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I do not live in the US...I know you have had some miscarriages of justice there...but again, your claims appear way beyond what is believable..and you give no evidence at all.


I don't know what evidence I could give. The only thing I can share is my own experience, and those of others I have known. Somehow I get the feeling what I'm saying is falling largely upon deaf ears. Nobody can believe that our justice system in this great country could be so one-sided, so unfair. One of these days I will write a complete history of what happened to our family at the hands of these people. But right now, there is just so much to say that I don't even know where to begin. I can't even comprehend how to organize it. And I fear that even if I did, it would do little or no good. It seems the only group who can truly sympathize with me are those unfortunates who's lives and families have been slowly and systematically destroyed by these self-righteous "guardians of the family". But I would not wish this nightmare upon anybody, not even to prove my own point. For those of you who choose to remain in blissful ignorance of this situation, I can only pray that your delusion is never tested. But as I said before, talk to your favorite family court lawyer or judge. Talk to law enforcement officers. Talk to ex-CPS agents who got fired from their jobs because they dared to treat families with integrity and truthfulness. Talk to people who have been through it. The evidence is there, if you choose to see it.
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Setanta
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 05:31 am
The only evidence so far is anecdotal. You have assiduously avoided the point i made that what people accused of a crime (this crime, or any other) suffer, they suffer not at the hands of the justice system, but at the hands of society.
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Setanta
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 05:35 am
@dlowan,
I couldn't tell you the numbers of people accused of child sexual abuse who are incarcerated without possibility of bail, and neither, so far has the author of this thread. I suspect that the same circumstances apply as do with any other crime. Therefore, this member, having made an extraordinary claim, has the burden of proof. His original thesis can be easily answered by pointing out that the opprobrium which such an individual suffers, when accused but not convicted, is something for which society and not the legal system is responsible. It seems to me that this member wishes to conflate social censure with injustices alleged against the legal system. Once again, absent proof, which he doesn't provide, there is no reason to take him at his word.
rydinearth
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 09:08 am
@Setanta,
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I couldn't tell you the numbers of people accused of child sexual abuse who are incarcerated without possibility of bail, and neither, so far has the author of this thread. I suspect that the same circumstances apply as do with any other crime. Therefore, this member, having made an extraordinary claim, has the burden of proof. His original thesis can be easily answered by pointing out that the opprobrium which such an individual suffers, when accused but not convicted, is something for which society and not the legal system is responsible. It seems to me that this member wishes to conflate social censure with injustices alleged against the legal system. Once again, absent proof, which he doesn't provide, there is no reason to take him at his word.

Unfortunately, I don't have access to a vast library of legal history. And even if I did, what good would it do, unless my readers were willing to sift through mountains of documentation about every moment in the courtroom? And even then, who's to say the official record wouldn't be skewed? No, I'm afraid all I have to offer is my own personal experiences, and those of others I know.
But this is not a courtroom, and I my intent is not to prove beyond reasonable doubt that my assertions are correct. My intent is simply to share what I have experienced, partly by way of catharsis, and partly in the hope that others might avoid what I have been through.
I would be very interested to hear 'anecdotal evidence' from others with similar experiences, either on this forum or in private.
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Mame
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 09:34 am
My sister has a friend whose husband was a volunteer basketball coach of a girl's team, had a great job and was very happy with his wife and two teens.

Then some young girl (about 13 yrs) on the team accused him of some sexual charge (can't remember what it was) and his life was ruined. He lost his job, his reputation was tarnished beyond repair, they went into major debt fighting it, his kids suffered at school, his wife was pitied... it was absolutely horrible. By the time of the trial, he was a wreck. He'd lost weight, many friends abandoned them, he was seeing a therapist, and he became nervous, distrustful and depressed. Family relations were strained and they were vilified in the neighbourhood.

When they went to court, she broke down and admitted on the stand that she had lied about it. She was pissed off at him for benching her or some such stupid thing. I remember my sister updating me on them (I'd met them) from time to time, and when that bombshell came out (the lie), I was flabbergasted that she wasn't charged with perjury or defamation of character.

The police never once questioned whether he was innocent; he was presumed guilty from the start.

He could have sued the family but he was an emotional mess and wasn't up to it.

So, yes, people's lives have been ruined by false charges and faulty or inadequate investigation.
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hawkeye10
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 12:12 pm
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The Effects of a False Allegation of Child Sexual Abuse on an Intact Middle Class Family1
Darrell W. Richardson*
ABSTRACT: The personal, clinical, and legal experience of an intact family of four in which which a false allegation of sexual abuse was made by the daughter toward the father was reported. The family was followed for two years. The experience destroyed the family and the parents and children all suffered depression, stress, rage, distress, hurt, and alienation. This case study parallels the available literature which indicates that a false allegation of sexual abuse is destructive and traumatic.


On his way to work, a clinical psychologist had no way of knowing he was about to be arrested. As he got out of his car, two police officers approached him, asked him who he was, placed him under arrest, handcuffed him, and drove him off to jail. He had been charged with sexually abusing his two-year-old daughter (Spiegel 1986).

I know of several similar incidents. A clinical psychologist was investigated by Child Protective Services for allegedly molesting his three-year-old daughter. A manager in a local supermarket was investigated for allegedly abusing his seventeen-year-old son, a local football star. He was fired as soon as the investigation became public. A drug and alcohol counselor was fired because it was rumored that he molested a counselee. A woman left her husband, a young army N.C.O., and informed him that she intended to keep all the appliances, furniture, and any other possessions she wanted (whether or not they belonged to her). And if he tried to stop her, she would turn him in for sexual abuse. The N.C.O. did nothing. His rationale was that his career in the service would be ruined.

The common strand in all these situations was that the allegations were found to be false. The clinical psychologist spent $50,000 in his defense, lost his practice and most of his friends (Spiegel 1986). The second clinical psychologist spent nearly $35,000 in Juvenile Court in his defense (criminal charges were never filed). Both psychologists reported suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and depression. The supermarket manager lost his job, his home, filed bankruptcy, and went through a divorce. He related these tragedies to the intervention of the state. The drug and alcohol counselor lost his job because of the rumor, even though a check of the local law enforcement agencies (city, county, and state) found no charges filed, nor was there any complaint filed with CPS. The N.C.O. was blackmailed by his former spouse.

Why were there divorces? Why were people fired before they were convicted? How could a spouse blackmail her husband with impunity? In a larger sense, what was it like for these people? What were the effects of a false allegation of child abuse on the people that were subject of that allegation?

This study examined the experience of a formerly intact middle-class family, victimized by false allegations of child and sexual abuse. It examines not only the facts, but the ethos, the experience of being innocent and on the wrong side of public opinion, and the power of the state.


The Problem

The National Study of Child Abuse (Smith, 1985) estimated that 1.1 million child abuse and neglect reports have been filed with Child Protective Agencies each year and that more than 600,000 of these probably cannot be substantiated even using the broad definitions of child abuse and neglect often used by the protective service agencies. Of the remaining 40%, only half (or 20% of the total reports) were considered substantial enough to be included in the national study (Smith, 1985).

http://www.ipt-forensics.com/journal/volume2/j2_4_7.htm
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hawkeye10
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 12:31 pm
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From Kirkus Reviews
A psychologist castigates his own profession for its role in false sexual abuse claims that have put innocent people behind bars, ruined families, and damaged patients in therapy. Campbell, a member of the Professional and Scientific Advisory Board of the False Memory Syndrome Foundation, has previously published portions of the present work in a number of peer-reviewed journals. Here, he first examines the role of anxious parents, ill-informed health-care professionals, and overzealous prosecutors in legal cases involving false allegations of sexual abuse. He describes numerous disturbing cases, some that have been well publicized and others that have not, to reveal the error-prone procedures for assessing child abuse and the way in which play therapy for children can dramatically alter their memories. Next, he looks closely at the practice of recovered memory therapy, in which therapists persuade adult clients that their troubles originated in childhood sexual abuse, memories of which they have repressed. Campbell contends that recovered memory therapists, who may be doctoral-level psychologists, not just marginally trained practitioners, are bringing discredit to psychotherapy with their use of the blame-and-change approach (clients in therapy must blame family members in order to change themselves) and their persistence in clinging to misinformed theories about memory and repression. Campbell, who cites studies showing that therapists rely much more on subjective impressions than on scientific research, charges that within the American Psychological Association and other member organizations, political correctness and marketing concerns prevail over ethical responsibility and accuracy of information. In his final chapter, Campbell outlines the changes that he thinks psychotherapy must make, the likelihood of which he finds remote. A hard-hitting indictment - full of appalling human stories, impressive research, tough language, and charges that demand a response. -- Copyright ©1998, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.

Product Description

Smoke and Mirrors: The Devastating Effect of False Sexual Abuse Claims is an uncompromising examination of how false allegations originate, gather momentum, and too often culminate by ripping apart the lives of innocent people. Dr. Terence Campbell, a nationally recognized authority in the area of forensic psychology, passionately debates how false allegations of sexual abuse can occur anywhere to anyone.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0306459841/foundatfortruthi
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Robert Gentel
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 01:36 pm
@dlowan,
dlowan wrote:
Where does this stuff come from?

Is it actually true in the US?


Hyperbole, for the most part, and I don't agree that there are significant numbers of innocents jailed, but there is a reason you hear about this theme so much. The US has some pretty ugly miscarriages of justice (not public opinion, mind you) with sex offender laws.

There are a lot of stories like this one, where a teenager ends up on a sex offender list for life because of activities between two teenagers.

You don't find a lot of jailed innocent people, but there are certainly a lot of miscarriages of justice when it comes to the sex offender registry especially but with sex offender laws in general, and despite my not feeling comfortable in the company of some of the pedo-ilk we have had here I really do think it is an example of yet another moral panic in America. I have no tolerance for real child abuse, but in the haste to enact laws to protect children the rights of the accused have suffered, and the odds are really stacked against the accused in the US in all matters sexual.

Some examples I could remember and find easily:

Man grabs girl's arm " now he's a sex offender
Driver's chastisement of 14-year-oldwho walked in front of car earns stigma


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Trial Judge Patrick Morse ordered registration reluctantly, acknowledging it was "more likely than not" Barnaby only intended to chastise the girl. "I don't really see the purpose of registration in this case. I really don't," Morse said. "But I feel that I am constrained by the statute."


Sex offender files lawsuit to get off list
Punishment called cruel and unusual for high school act


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Whitaker, 29, is on the registry for having consensual oral sex with a classmate three weeks before his 16th birthday. Whitaker had just turned 17. Both were high school sophomores.

Because of her 1997 sodomy conviction, Whitaker must register as a sex offender for life and comply with the law’s residency restrictions that bar her from living within 1,000 feet of designated areas where children congregate.


Wilson released after two years behind bars for teen sex conviction

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The Georgia Supreme Court earlier Friday ordered that he be released, ruling 4-3 that his sentence was cruel and unusual punishment.

Wilson, 21, was convicted in 2005 of having oral sex with a consenting 15-year-old girl when he was 17.


Woman prosecuted for giving her children too much information about sex

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Amy Smalley thought she was being a good parent when she taught her children about sex.

Smalley told her children, ages 11 and 15, about her own sexual experiences, explained how to perform oral sex and even showed them a sex toy she owned.

Smalley called it education. Prosecutors called it a crime.


Proof: Porn Pop-Up Teacher is Innocent, Despite Misdemeanor Plea

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Amero, a substitute teacher in Norwich, Connecticut, was arrested after students in her class reported that they'd seen pornographic images on her computer screen on Oct. 19, 2004. Amero said the computer wouldn't stop sending pop-ups and that she didn't know what to do with the computer.

In January 2007, she was convicted of four felony pornography charges and faced up to 40 years in prison.

Computer security experts, including Alex Eckelberry of Sunbelt Software, read about the case and immediately suspected Amero was the victim of rogue software and an overzealous prosecutor. He and a crack team of computer forensic experts examined the hard drive for the defense on a pro-bono basis.

Based on their March 2007 report, the judge in the case set aside the conviction in June 2007 " essentially granting Amero a new trial and raising hopes the prosecution would drop the case.



Girl, 13, charged as sex offender and victim

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Utah Supreme Court justices acknowledged Tuesday that they were struggling to wrap their minds around the concept that a 13-year-old girl could be both an offender and a victim for the same act - in this case, having consensual sex with her 12-year-old boyfriend.

The Ogden, Utah, girl was put in this odd position because she was found guilty of violating a state law that prohibits sex with someone under age 14. She also was the victim in the case against her boyfriend, who was found guilty of the same violation by engaging in sexual activity with her.


Some of the laws that deal with these matters are pretty silly:


Lawmaker: Urinating In Public Exposes Flaw In Law
Representative Wants To Make Public Urination A Separate Crime


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Shurtleff said because indecent exposure is a sex offense, multiple convictions could land habitual public urinators on a sex offender registry, a penalty he feels is too severe for the crime.

"I think some of the stigma attached to that is greater than the offense," he said. "It's public urination and they should be charged with it."


Bill toughens law on visual sexual aggression against children in Maine

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Under the bill, if someone is arrested for viewing children in a public place, it would be a Class D felony if the child is between 12 to 14 years old and a Class C felony if the child is under 12, according to Alexander.


I really like how America has zero tolerance for child abuse. I'm trying to advocate for greater protections for children here in Costa Rica, where in some rural areas the abuse is widespread and nothing happens (e.g. one of the people whose testimony I am compiling for this effort was given money by her teachers to escape an abusive parent, essentially told to run away to another city because the law would be of precious little help) but the moral panic in the US isn't helpful. It's giving fodder to pedophiles who want to do away with the laws for more insidious reasons than societal justice. It's providing plausible cover for real pedophiles when you get harassed by cops just because you happen to be parked too close to a school. We need more sensible policy on this, or the stigma will backfire and make abuse even more acceptable.
hawkeye10
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 01:41 pm
@Robert Gentel,
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but the moral panic in the US isn't helpful. It's giving fodder to pedophiles who want to do away with the laws for more insidious reasons than societal justice. It's providing plausible cover for real pedophiles when you get harassed by cops just because you happen to be parked too close to a school. We need more sensible policy on this, or the stigma will backfire and make abuse even more acceptable.


Over reaching is always counter productive in the long run, and the child saviour community has clearly over reached in America. So have the fundamentalist femininists by way of using rape law as a club against men.
Robert Gentel
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 01:50 pm
@hawkeye10,
Case in point.
hawkeye10
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 01:51 pm
@hawkeye10,
BTW, the root cause of these and many other problems is the mindset of "if it saves even just one life then it is worth doing"....which is childish BS. Those who buy into this nonsense should be ignored because they clearly are in no position to be of any help in creating solutions.
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Setanta
 
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Sat 7 Mar, 2009 02:35 pm
Kirkus Reviews . . . i laughed so hard i almost choked . . . Kirkus Reviews is in the business of writing favorable reviews for book jackets. Kirkus Reviews never met a book it didn't like, nor one with which it disagreed. It is entirely possible that Kirkus Reviews has reviewed a book with an opposing point of view, and Kirkus agreed with that one, too.

As a source for a statement, Kirkus Reviews ranks up there with "because i said so."
 

 
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