@rydinearth,
Where does this stuff come from?
Is it actually true in the US?
Here, you have almost no chance of ever being convicted if you sexually abuse kids...the littler the better, by the way.
The system doesn't even begin to get involved unless the alleged disclosure by the child meets certain criteria for credibility and lack of contamination.
IF the child is interviewed, the system is heavily weighted so as to exclude false positives.....this means that there is way more chance an abused child will not make what is considered to be a sound disclosure than that they will make an unsound one.
Then there's the judicial system. Children's evidence has less credibility than adults' (and adults alleging rape almost never get a conviction, either, unless there is is corroborating evidence, and often not then) and many children are excluded from trial because the prosecution judge they will not cope with the trial.
Even if they get to trial, since most child abuse occurs over time, there are often many instances. The chances of a child remembering any one incident in enough detail to pass cross examination is small.
I would likely, if a young child of mine were abused, think very carefully about whether to allow a trial, even if it got to that, because of how traumatising the system is for kids, and how small the chance of conviction.
Ditto if I get raped.
Truly, the sort of stuff that gets written on A2k about prisons full of falsely accused men strikes me as utter crap.
I know that the US can be very different in terms of how you do things...but is there credible evidence of these gross claims?
This is not to deny that there ARE false claims....or kids so influenced by parents, for example, who hate each other, that they come to believe something has happened.
Their stories, in such cases, for instance, are often not hard to pull apart and identify as coaching.
But the magnitude that gets talked about here?
I'd want some real evidence..and not just alleged perps saying they didn't do it.
Re the presumed innocence.
It ain't all black and white, you know.
I can likely counter every anecdote anyone can throw at me of innocent adults kept from their kids, with stories of innocent kids abused for years by guilty adults because courts insisted that the alleged offender have unsupervised access.
If someone working for you gets credibly accused of embeszzling at a previous job, and stealing millions, and is awaiting trial, are you still going to have them as your accountant and working unsupervised?
What is fair?
Of course they are innocent until proven guilty...but what about your duty of care?
If a carer at your child's day care has been accused of sexually abusing a number of kids, is it right that they continue to have access to your kid?
It's a damn tough area, but it's not a simple binomial decision as to how to react to accusations.