Ok, not really who's right but tell me if I am being unreasonable.
I borrowed some maternity clothes from a family member when I was pregnant. It was a Target/Wal-Mart sized bag filled with tops. No pants, shorts, skirts.
Somewhere in our last move, the clothes got lost or were donated. Well, I was asked for the clothes back and I was honest and said they were gone. The clothes were used by her, and then by me and were about 3 years old. They were Old Navy and Motherhood stuff, nothing designer or expensive.
I offered to replace them by going to some mom to mom sales and picking up gently used clothes; after all, I would be replacing used clothes. The places I live around have some really high end places and I know I could get some great deals on some nice clothes. I offered her to replaced the items or to send her $50. I apologized and all that jazz.
She came back with, "I can't believe that you would offer such a low amount. I was expecting you to offer me $200 for the clothes."
$200 for one bag of used maternity shirts?
Is she nuts?
Granted I don't know that $50 would be the replacement value of the items but I did offer to replace what I could for her and she declined saying she wanted the money.
I think she just wants to go out and buy new clothes. She doesn't work outside the house so fancy new clothes is not really something she really needs.
I get her being pissed. I lost her clothes. But am I wrong for thinking that $200 is way too much for used maternity shirts? There were maybe 15 shirts in the bag. And again, all used and several years old.
Set me straight, people. Tell me like it is.