Re: Dare to be abnormal
coberst wrote:When I empathisize with another person I make that other person meaningful to me. I place myself in the picture with that other person.
Again, you've got it backwards. To make another person meaningful to
you is to place that person in
your picture. It's called being an ideologue. It's only by placing yourself in
his or her picture that you are making yourself meaningful to
him or her.
The former happens all the time, to be sure; I would even call it inevitable. But it would be very naive, if not deceptive, to mask the former as the latter.