Setanta wrote:Ulimately, political rectitude suffers from being what it advertises itself to be--political. To refer to your question, and not the silly attempt here to make this a partisan issue, the question of what constitutes humor is at the heart of your original post.
If what your acquaintance says is genuinely funny, than whether or not someone else contends that it is politically incorrect is meaningless. However, i would add the caveat that simple cruelty does not necessarily constitute humor. To laugh at a woman because she is large, what some people might call "fat" is to laugh at something she likely cannot control, and that's probably simple cruelty, and not humor. At the same time, some of the best jokes i've heard came from people laughing at themselves. The Irish are often capable of this, and one of the best jokes i've ever heard makes fun of a racist. I suggest you attempt to determine if your friend's remarks are genuinely humorous, or just a case of cruelly laughing at others for things they cannot help.
This is a great point, I mean there is a difference between "make fun of a fat woman just for the sake of it" and make this part of a story. Comedies are full of funny characters, fat, skinny, bold, short, ugly, etc. but the willingness of the actors to take part in this gives us a licence to laugh. I am sure there are lots of fat women who don't care what they look like and are willing to make fun of themselves. It is only when the humor is taken out of context, then it borders racism and primitive discrimination. Clarkson targets any kind of people but it is just pure fun, not something he really has against the people and their dignity. For example he makes fun, really wild fun of people from Norfolk, England. He portrays the district as the most prehistoric area, locals don't know about cars, telephones, have never seen a credit card... It is just so much fun to read but I am absolutely sure that Clarkson is not serious and if he met an interesting woman from Norfolk, he might want to be her best friend or marry her or whatever. I am sure he is not as stupid as to believe that actually All Germans are this or that. But why not make fun of Germans or whoever. It just has to be a part of a story or comedy or something. I think I will use the word "girl" again, when I feel like it. Women, pardon me. I really believe you (provided you are over 18)are adult and equal and all that and there is absolutely no reason to underestimate your talents and potential of all sorts. But sometimes it is good to play games and relax.