hawkeye10 wrote:dlowan wrote:
Why?
You simply keep repeating that one cannot, and you clearly feel very emotional about it.
There are only so many ways to explain a basic concept.
Let's try this, you screw-up and work. In a meeting a coworker chimes in to all with "I apologize for dlowan screwing that up". How does that make you feel? Dismissed? Violated? like they had not right to say that?
You see, this is exactly where I think you are reacting as though the situation were far different than it is.
Individual Australians are not responsible and should not feel guilty. "Sorr" does not have to be an expression of shame or guilt. It can be an expression of empathy, as in "I'm sorry to hear your friend died" or "I'm sorry you got hurt in that car accident"
In any case the apology was not made on behalf of the Australian people but rather limited to the Australian Parliament.
This is not an issue such as your analogy would make it out to be.
This is a duly elected Parliament saying sorry for the way in which the duly elected Parliaments of my country have conducted themselves towards indigenous Australians.
And, in fact, even your analogy is not as clear and simple as you think it.
For instance, if I truly screwed up at work, my management might well add organizational apologies to my apology to a truly aggrieved client, as they would take some responsibility, not for my individual actions, but for my behaviour as their representative. The world is not as simplistically individualistic as you make it out to be.
This would actually be fairly common practice in businesses, I believe. I actually am currently in possession of TWO letters of apology from connected businesses, for a mistake which was made by one, and which both then failed to correct in a timely manner, and which had potentially very serious consequences. I have no idea whose the individual mistakes were, but the companies have apologised on behalf of the company.
Would you feel aggrieved by this?
You are happy for governments to acknowledge past wrongs, but not for them to acknowledge their sorrow for past wrongs, that continue to have devastating consequences upon people today, and upon their as yet unborn children??????????