I sorta think making declarations about being gay is like a heterosexual holding a press conference to detail their sexual positions or something. They don't owe anyone that information, imo.
The pressure (to come out) from the gay community is pretty daunting. I think gayness is a net plus for actors...I was thinking the Anne Heche thing was because she was an opportunistic wacko. I don't think she is gay---I think she was a user.
I'm lovin the gays meeself.