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raisingirl wrote:
I'm reading The Count of Monte Cristo.
During my teenage years and my early twenties I read dozens of "classics" about heroic men and (outwardly, at least) lyrically beautiful women.
I read the classics because I thought they were the best the human race had to offer.
I stopped reading almost entirely when I realized I wasn't going do anything heroic like those men, who suddenly made me acutely jealous of their epic lives, rather than offering inspiration. I also wanted female characters to be something more than just the romantic interest of the story. They had to more than just pretty.
Now I mainly read scifi novels by women about women, because I never feel the need compare myself with the heroines or wish that I could
become them, because that would just be ... weird.
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Anyhow, my "book du jour" from that genre is
Rediscovery by Marion Zimmer Bradley and Mercedes Lackey. Amazing speculative look at what happens when a medieval culture meets people from outerspace.