Play with me.

Concept of Control over others:
1: I do believe there is a pecking order for all mammals. The strong do survive, therefore you probably should follow them. What if you have a child with down syndrome? Should you let them lead? I think there's a way to have a happy medium.
2: I don't know, but have you had a "future" feeling of events to come? What is that? Is it a religious experience or your subconscious saying, "Hey! We've been here before!"
3. Religion as a security blanket: There are times when we let things go as they will. Even if we are not religious. That's only because we have no concept for it. We block things out or don't want to deal with it.