parados wrote:Playing nice on a site doesn't mean you have to do what is considered nice on other sites, it means whatever the site owner wants it to mean. The rules could be completely unreasonable but since it is his site he can set them however he wants. He gets to set them and he doesn't have to change them even if your request would seem reasonable to 99% of the population.
Some of these website community managers go to ridiculous extremes-you do something a certian way they claim you're abusing their system, or say the system's not intended to be used that way.
Some of them are such sticklers is that they won't listen to you-all they care about is enforcing their rules.
Then when you try to talk to them to tell them you made an error they don't want to hear and lie and say the site's not for the purposes you said-they act like they resent you being there and act like you're the bad guy.
Other people have the nerve to stick their nose in your business and ask you what you're up to.
I was at one site and I kept getting warned about the mistakes I made-I was trying to follow the rules. I slipped and made another error then they said they were going to block me from using a certain part of the their site.
I tried talking and reasoning with the manager and he still didn't want to unblock that certain part of the site. It's like Moses trying to talk to Pharoah.
As I said there are ways to get back to these sits without them knowing it's you-I have done it before.
That's why I pray.