Tue 25 Jan, 2005 01:58 pm - Yes I did just recently. She has totally given up on having kids. Now I prefer to encourage her to aggressively get to the bottom of her migraine instead of harping on the topic that keeps her down. (view)
Tue 25 Jan, 2005 12:47 pm - Folks,
She had always said that she didn't want kids considering her physical condition. She had never come out to say outright she doesn't want kids. So it was natural that I think if... (view)
Mon 24 Jan, 2005 03:30 pm - sozobe,
You're right. People who do really want to have kids will work around their barriers or get to the bottom of their issues. She did have her doubts from the beginning (like me) but... (view)
Mon 24 Jan, 2005 09:08 am - Debra_Law, what you're saying may have been true in the past, but not any more. We love each other. Our relationship is not bumpy anymore although we may be paying for having some issues now... (view)
Mon 24 Jan, 2005 08:23 am - I am not being sexist, panzade. All I am saying is that there are days when either husband or wife should try his or her best to keep everything around the house in hand while the other one is... (view)
Sun 23 Jan, 2005 12:02 pm - Thanks every one.
Yes I think also that the bottom line for me is whether I want kids more than living with her. I wouldn't want kids though before proving it to myself that I can be a good... (view)
Sat 22 Jan, 2005 04:53 pm - I am 36 and my wife is 31. We have been married for 6 years. Before our marriage, we both acknowledged that we weren't ready for having kids rightaway, but also thought we would get there... (view)
