Fri 19 Jan, 2018 01:03 am - Wow, I feel like maybe I'm painting him in a really bad light. I have been in a proper controlling and abusive relationship, the first one I've ever had. It sort of shaped my idea of what... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 09:35 pm - I know! I also feel the frustration at the fact that I didn't actually cheat and I was looking up stuff not because I want to start anything up with my ex but I'm just curious.
He... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 09:13 pm - Hmm, to be honest I don't think that he's doing it on purpose, or perhaps he is to hurt me the way he's hurting. I just genuinely think he's confused as well, he loves me and... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 07:15 pm - Wow... some really scathing things said and not really easy to read when I'm already going through this stuff.
It's my apartment and he's living here because he's not... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 05:34 am - You reckon? He doesn't seem like the type and I've been controlled in most of my relationships already. Why would you think that's controlling behaviour? (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 05:04 am - I never cheated if that's what you think, it's more like looking up pictures of exs and things of that nature, I would never cheat on him. However, he was cheated on repeatedly in his... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 04:54 am - Wow, that was a lot to take. But yes, I am not like that at all, I'm the type of person who wants to make it work and everyone to be happy and all just get along. I don't think I would... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 04:38 am - Yeah I know, I hear what you are saying because ultimately it's hurting both me and him and eventually when it comes down to it, the kids as well. I think mainly he's confused and part of... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 04:15 am - It seems every time I broach the subject he says he's leaving me, but when I just ignore it we continue on as normal, except we don't have any intimacy, I guess it's his way of... (view)
Thu 18 Jan, 2018 03:50 am - Hmm, perhaps I've over simplified it and made it seem like he's just using me. We've been living together for a year and I've got two kids who he's very attached to,... (view)
