Sun 21 Sep, 2014 12:00 am - Thank you CJ for your reply. As for internet porn, I am not really able to view that clearly right now bc I have been dealing with long term as well as more recent issues with his lying which... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 07:12 pm - One Eyed Mind - thank you. To me, your advice sounds wise and compassionate. As for your belief that there's a 100% chance his deleted history was porn....That concerns me. Because he keeps... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 07:00 pm - So sorry to hear about your break up. Here's an odd thing that really helps!! This is for when you are thinking about her generally, and not trying to figure something out (analyzing in a... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 06:53 pm - Hi One Eyed Mind. Thanks again for your reply. I totally agree with you about safety and with this guy's history with "bad choices sexually", I am very on guard to make sure there... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 06:34 pm - I am a mother hen and feel certain that he hasn't gone near her. He put his sex ads up at a time when he was freaking out that we might break up (over his lying issues, ironically). He was... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 06:29 pm - Oh, two more things: First, I realize that his sex ads aren't the same thing as "watching porn". Second, the "breather from porn" wasn't just to help clear my mind... (view)
Sat 20 Sep, 2014 06:12 pm - Hi. My BF (50 yrs) and I have had past issues starting when he got a text msg from his ex describing in detail how she was masturbating. Text arrived when we were both looking at his phone,... (view)
