Thu 26 Oct, 2017 10:21 am - Punkey...to answer your question...she has said on more than one occasion that she if very aware that her libido is low...that if there were a female version of Viagra she'd be all over it.... (view)
Thu 26 Oct, 2017 10:12 am - ...and to answer this question...no...that was not how it seemed. She was loving and attentive. We had a wonderful time. (view)
Thu 26 Oct, 2017 10:06 am - ...and to answer your question Beth...the kids where with family during that mini vacation. that is an option...sometimes...just not very often.
And yes...they are more than old enough to be at... (view)
Thu 26 Oct, 2017 10:04 am - Going out for a date night, or for a walk or for alone time isn't the problem.
We do these things a lot. We talk...we hold hands...the kids are fine at home for a few hours on their own.... (view)
Thu 26 Oct, 2017 06:37 am - ...and these are all great ideas Beth but there are stupid practicalities that don't make it quite so simple. We live in place where friends and family are not close by. We have pets...so... (view)
Thu 26 Oct, 2017 06:18 am - Im not going to insist on anything. Im her partner, not her father. We have been to counseling, but not together. She had an incredibly negative experience with couples counseling with her first... (view)
Wed 25 Oct, 2017 06:04 pm - Initially...after she set this rule in place, we took advantage of all the things you list here. Now...it doesn't really matter if they are here or not. Sex is never an option unless I ask.... (view)
Wed 25 Oct, 2017 05:16 pm - I did..and I have. We managed a great little 3 day getaway to Jamaica about 5 months ago. And I'll be honest...it was lovely. We had fun...we made love...she said she felt closer to me than... (view)
Wed 25 Oct, 2017 02:04 pm - My girlfriend and I of 6 years started out with a great sex life..fun...spontaneous...mutual. Now there is almost nothing. She seems loving and kind in every other way...she just doesn't seem... (view)