Wed 31 May, 2006 03:31 am - You're right Thomas. Throughout all of this and what's been happening over the past few months (as my eyes have opened) I've realised I have to make a good life for myself with BF.... (view)
Wed 31 May, 2006 03:25 am - You can choose now not to be buffaloed and bulldozed by a very nasty woman. In the future you can choose to control your hormones and body chemicals instead of allowing them to control you.... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 03:23 pm - Thanks freeduck and all for your help. I will come back to vent if i need to..........
lyricist.....good to hear you have strategies to help you cope. All the best. (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 03:06 pm - my deepest sympathy tagged_lyricist, especially as you are still living at home. I hope it doesnt get too bad. I had a good circle of friends at the time and I used to go to their houses a lot,... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 02:57 pm - Debra that sounds just like me.......you just want to smooth things over all the time because you want normality. I'm in my early thirties now and I don't know maybe around this age you... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 02:39 pm - That's sad debra about your mum, but like you say 'you reap what you sow'. When it comes down to you feeling that it's a matter of self preservation then you know there's... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 02:34 pm - Freeduck-I've been speaking to my BF about all your valuable responses. He says it's good to know I'm not alone and there are others going through what I do. He doesn't think... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 01:25 pm - You're right debra_law. I just wish I'd done/felt this earlier. It's best to get angry and I'm going to start now. It's just that she always used to convince me that i had... (view)
Tue 30 May, 2006 01:13 pm - That's alright freeduck, it wasn't harsh. I feel like the blinkers have been lifted from eyes after so long, what you say just confirms it. I just don't understand why it has taken... (view)
