Mon 22 Aug, 2005 03:16 pm - But then again I am torn. Everyone in his life has left him. His Mom left his Dad after 11 years of marriage, His Dad died when he was 14, Mom kicked him out at 17 and they have never really been... (view)
Mon 22 Aug, 2005 03:11 pm - No - I am not sure that vanishing would greatly improve things. But I do know that he has the best of both worlds right now. A job he is absorbed in (it's the only thing give him a sense of... (view)
Mon 22 Aug, 2005 02:55 pm - My plan was no forwarding address (except my family). He wants alone time with no demands on him, no perceived arguments, to live for himself. Then give it to him.
We are too conveniant for... (view)
Mon 22 Aug, 2005 07:41 am - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
I totally agree.
The research I have done indicates the best course is to be supportive, and give him his space. Four weeks ago - I told him... (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 06:32 pm - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
Makes sense - and I will ask.
It just seems that he would realize what he is jeapordizing - I guess he is just not able to see that right now. (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 06:11 pm - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
I am hoping that when he/we get through this - he will be a stronger version of the man I married, at peace with himself. I know he loves me - and... (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 01:22 pm - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
I just don't know where the loving, husband that I married gone to. I think right now - his job is such a boost to his male ego that he... (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 01:16 pm - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
Yes - he is very preoccupied with himself right now as he has been for a while. And yes, this has been coming for a while - he just had to get to... (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 12:41 pm - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
I would consider counseling - even went to a couple of sessions. But he will not. Have approached the subject several times - he is ademant that... (view)
Thu 18 Aug, 2005 11:41 am - How do I know if he is having a mid life crisis?
At 14 his father died. 14-18 were rough years. We met when he was 20. Marred when he was 21 (lived together for a year). Truly devoted to each... (view)
