Sun 4 Dec, 2016 08:20 pm - We never got to moving in together. This was one of the first talks about potentially doing that. And yes , if he said we should be paying 50/50 , we would not be having this issue right now.... (view)
Sun 4 Dec, 2016 07:43 pm - Yes , paying half just like you would when you start your life with someone.
And that means, should something ever happen to one or another , you will know that the other will support and help... (view)
Sun 4 Dec, 2016 07:34 pm - Yes, just as much as I would never "charge" him for groceries I bought or
Dinner I made. This is not roommates type of situation, if two people decide to build a life together , I... (view)
Sun 4 Dec, 2016 02:49 pm - And I couldn't agree more, it is important to discuss this like this prior to making this type of move. The reason I asked this question here is, I am a realist and I realize people have... (view)
Sun 4 Dec, 2016 02:35 pm - Yes you did misunderstand what I said. His position is NOT to split rent in half, but rather me paying more because of my kids. (view)
Sat 3 Dec, 2016 06:19 pm - I should mention that he pays support for his own son. And this was part of his argument , that he covers partially for his son's living, and my kids' father should do the same. I do not... (view)
Sat 3 Dec, 2016 06:13 pm - Yes, and he took it back after he saw my reaction. However, makes me wonder whether this is the type of person I want to share my life with. (view)
Sat 3 Dec, 2016 06:12 pm - Thank you for sharing. This is how I feel. Not every man will date a woman with kids, but if you decide to do so, shouldn't you know what this entails.
I never count any pennies with him,... (view)
