Thu 16 Dec, 2004 03:26 pm - That does make so much sense.
We both had our own places before moving here. He had an apartment, which I never thought was that much cleaner than my place. I had a house, so he knew right... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 11:43 am - I just want to say thank you to all that replied. I really didn't expect so much advice and concern from pure strangers. I suprisingly feel a little better, not on the verge of crying... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 10:02 am - I really don't know. I guess I hold this rationalization with myself that if things used to be good isn't it possible they could change to be that way again?
I don't feel like I... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 09:51 am - You don't think he will take that as a sign that I'm not serious about needing things to change...like everything is okay. I'm afraid he will think I was just being an overreactive... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 09:33 am - Yes, you are right.
So now what? How do I handle things when I get home tonight? I'm leaving tomorrow for Nebraska. I'm sure he will be distant as usual tonight but pretend like... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 09:18 am - I have told him I'm unhappy. He does seem bothered by that. He asks over and over what I want, but when I tell him what I need he give me that deer in the headlight look.
I love him so... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 08:59 am - I really don't think he would consider therapy. Not so much because he wouldn't commit to me, but more because he sees things like therapy as being for the week.
Yes, I agree, that... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 08:48 am - Maybe...in the two months we were apart, because I couldn't leave my old job due to a contract with my old job, he was so sweet. Called me several times a day and always telling me how much... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 08:42 am - It's not that easy to leave. There are 4 states separating me from my family. I have no friends here and essentially nowhere to go if I do leave. I make okay money but don't know if I... (view)
Thu 16 Dec, 2004 08:35 am - I did try something similar after Thanksgiving. I made a huge dinner for just the two of us, homemade pie and all. He said he would help do the dishes, he never did. It made me so angry after... (view)
