Thu 22 Jan, 2015 10:16 am - Thank you again for all of your help working through this. In my last post, I said that I had gotten over this and was ready to move on. However, last night/this morning, I had a bit of a relapse.... (view)
Thu 22 Jan, 2015 07:31 am - Hi Jane,
Thank you again for all of your help working through this. In my last post, I said that I had gotten over this and was ready to move on. However, last night/this morning, I had a bit of... (view)
Thu 15 Jan, 2015 12:00 pm - UPDATE!!
Before my wife got home tonight, I was reading reviews about the book 'After the Affair.' I came across a review that totally changed my perspective of everything. The review... (view)
Wed 14 Jan, 2015 10:37 am - Hi Jane,
I'm not sure if you saw my most recent post, but I would like to add onto it and respond to your comments, as well.
When I first discovered the affair, I apparently told her... (view)
Tue 13 Jan, 2015 03:35 pm - Dear Jane and Eli,
Thank you both for the kind words and encouragement.
What are your thoughts about the feelings that I perceive my wife still has for him?
I knew my wife long before we... (view)
Sun 11 Jan, 2015 11:13 am - Hi Jane,
First, I want to thank you. You have been so great and helpful. I am sincerely thankful for you.
Yes, we have been talking A LOT. Probably more than we ever have. In a strange way,... (view)
Sat 10 Jan, 2015 01:52 pm - Thank you for your thoughts and advice. I'm still trying to fully understand how I feel about the whole thing. I've gone through just about every emotion imaginable. Part of me feels that... (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 09:19 pm - Thank you so much for all of the great advice and words of encouragement. This is a very difficult time for me and I'm doing my best to make my way through it. This is the most painful thing... (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 02:27 pm - I do still love her.
She did express her unhappiness prior to me discovering the relationship with her old boyfriend. And I was working on the things she told me she wanted. But I've found... (view)