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Mind's Eye Images Shot to Hell

 
 
Roberta
 
Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 06:11 am
When we see people here, we don't really see people here. We see words and an avatar. Over the course of time, I developed mental images--vague ones--of what I thought people looked like. But only in my head.

The images are based on attitutude, voice, and, yes, avatar. I'm not suggesting that people look like their avatars. I bear no resemblance to a cheetah. But the choice says something about me.

First it was Timber's thread. Lately, there have been gatherings; photos have been posted. The mental images I formed are gone. Reality has intruded. There were a few surprises and some nods; yup, that's exactly what I thought somebody would look like.

Do you form mental images of people here? What are they based on? Were you surprised to see a photo?
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 06:43 am
I always thought Montana was a hot, curvacious blonde who posted in a string bikini. I was pretty disappointed to find out she had blue hair and wore mumus.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:22 am
I've had the same experience -- sometimes "yes, of course that's what the person looks like," and sometimes "WHAT?!" Slappy, for example, falls in the latter category -- I don't know what I expected, but it wasn't him.

Who knows how I form mental images. Probably a lot of association. This person's voice is similar to this other person I know who's voice is similar (speaking of writing style here, not, like, timbre), so maybe they look similar.

People often let clues drop about what they look like; age, weight, hair color, that sort of thing. Those are integrated into the mental picture, but of course they're not always true.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:42 am
sozobe wrote:
I've had the same experience -- sometimes "yes, of course that's what the person looks like," and sometimes "WHAT?!" Slappy, for example, falls in the latter category -- I don't know what I expected, but it wasn't him.

Who knows how I form mental images. Probably a lot of association. This person's voice is similar to this other person I know who's voice is similar (speaking of writing style here, not, like, timbre), so maybe they look similar.

People often let clues drop about what they look like; age, weight, hair color, that sort of thing. Those are integrated into the mental picture, but of course they're not always true.





Oooh...did I look as you expected?


Minus the ears, of course?
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:44 am
Re: Mind's Eye Images Shot to Hell
Roberta wrote:
When we see people here, we don't really see people here. We see words and an avatar. Over the course of time, I developed mental images--vague ones--of what I thought people looked like. But only in my head.

The images are based on attitutude, voice, and, yes, avatar. I'm not suggesting that people look like their avatars. I bear no resemblance to a cheetah. But the choice says something about me.

First it was Timber's thread. Lately, there have been gatherings; photos have been posted. The mental images I formed are gone. Reality has intruded. There were a few surprises and some nods; yup, that's exactly what I thought somebody would look like.

Do you form mental images of people here? What are they based on? Were you surprised to see a photo?



How big were the disconnects, Boida?
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:45 am
I saw the bubblebath picture pretty early on, before I'd fully formed a mental picture of you, I think. I don't really remember a pre-existing mental picture of you anyway.

Evidently people tend to think I'm blonde. My midwestern-Scandinavian upbringing, maybe...?
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:49 am
sozobe wrote:
I saw the bubblebath picture pretty early on, before I'd fully formed a mental picture of you, I think. I don't really remember a pre-existing mental picture of you anyway.

Evidently people tend to think I'm blonde. My midwestern-Scandinavian upbringing, maybe...?


Lol!


You didn't look as tough as I expected.


It's the Rosie thing, I expect.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:52 am
Oh, I CAN look tough.

I just look like a softie when I smile. :-)
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:54 am
Re: Mind's Eye Images Shot to Hell
Roberta wrote:
When we see people here, we don't really see people here. We see words and an avatar. Over the course of time, I developed mental images--vague ones--of what I thought people looked like. But only in my head.

The images are based on attitutude, voice, and, yes, avatar. I'm not suggesting that people look like their avatars. I bear no resemblance to a cheetah. But the choice says something about me.

First it was Timber's thread. Lately, there have been gatherings; photos have been posted. The mental images I formed are gone. Reality has intruded. There were a few surprises and some nods; yup, that's exactly what I thought somebody would look like.

Do you form mental images of people here? What are they based on? Were you surprised to see a photo?



I don't think I form images as such.


I get a kind of gestalt thing......it's a persona, and it must have some sort of physical dimensions...(eg Setanta talked much faster than I expected, and Beth's voice was a lot higher, and Craven was somehow more MALE...I think I'd expected some sort of Puckish voice...and most of you to whom I have talked have more pronounced American accents, or Canajun, than I had heard you as having in my mind) but I don't see a physical body as such.


I can still get surprised by photos, but I don't have a clear physical image that they diverge from.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 07:58 am
I wonder sometimes what the effect of an avatar is in forming a mental picture of a person. I think what a person chooses to represent him/herself does say something about the person. I had two other avatars for a short time, before I settled on this one. They were cute, but they were not me, and I felt uncomfortable about them representing me.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 08:00 am
Phoenix, I can't remember if I've told you this before -- when I first ran into you on Abuzz, I thought you were a man. A middle-aged professor type. Who was NOT paying attention to what I was saying!! Laughing I had to kind of get in your face, but you were gracious after that.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 08:08 am
Soz looks younger than i had expected, and very energetic, very enthusiastic. The biggest surprise i had ever gotten was Cavfancier. Wabbits, of course, are just wabbits--they all look the same.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 08:10 am
soz- I don't know if you ever saw this, but I once explained that when I first went on Abuzz, I did not want people to have any preconceived notions about my sex, age, marital status, etc. I wanted my words to be evaluated on their own, and as a result I was very conscious about not writing anything that would give anything away.

When I started to feel more comfortable, I began to share, and most people were surprised that I were not a man. Well, I AM a tough broad! Laughing
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Eva
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 10:25 am
You're in good company, Phoenix. When I first joined A2K (as "Visitor"), Lola was sure I was a man. Laughing
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Thomas
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 10:38 am
Setanta wrote:
Soz looks younger than i had expected, and very energetic, very enthusiastic. The biggest surprise i had ever gotten was Cavfancier. Wabbits, of course, are just wabbits--they all look the same.

I get that a lot too when A2K people first see me in real life. Evidently the web makes me look old.

Phoenix32890 wrote:
[W]hen I first went on Abuzz, I did not want people to have any preconceived notions about my sex, age, marital status, etc. I wanted my words to be evaluated on their own, and as a result I was very conscious about not writing anything that would give anything away.

When I started to feel more comfortable, I began to share, and most people were surprised that I were not a man. Well, I AM a tough broad! Laughing

It's interesting that no men seem to have tried the reverse experiment so far. Maybe I should get myself a gender-neutral name and give some advice in the "relationships and marriage" forum. (hehee)
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Letty
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 11:52 am
Well, I thought Phoenix was one of those feminist with a power haircut, blonde and mowhawkish.

I pictured Joefromchicago looking like Clarence Darrow.

I knew that ehBeth was five feet two with eyes of blue.

I pictured Eva as being tall and willowy, but never thought of her as a man.

I pictured Deb just about the way she really looks.

Craven I pictured as Rudolph Valentino.

Soz as medium height with long brown hair.

I thought that Setanta was Mexican

I also thought that Roger was a college student.

I never thought that Thomas would have such a wonderful head of curly hair.

I was also surprised that Cav had such long curly hair.

Roberta, I have you pictured as being tall with dark hair.
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 11:57 am
It's easier to just imagine everyone naked.

At least that's what my therapist tells me.
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 12:02 pm
This is me about 35 years ago, with me about 40 years from now. Smile

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/cjhsa/minimefutureme.jpg
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 12:52 pm
Setanta wrote:
Soz looks younger than i had expected, and very energetic, very enthusiastic.


That's a surprise, if a pleasant one. I was so tired when we met for lunch in Columbus -- I have good lipreading days and bad lipreading days, and that was a baaaaad one.

Thomas, our internal essential selves are old fogies, the exteriors will catch up soon enough.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 18 Jun, 2007 12:53 pm
You lie . . . there were no molded plastic lawn chairs 35 years ago.
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