shewolfnm wrote:Even if the letter carrier noticed, most peoples first thought is that an older person who doesnt appear to be home for a while is either in the hospital, or maybe a nursing home. Or staying with their family.
it isnt typical for someone to think " He has not checked his mail in 2 days, he might be dead"
When I was working at a nursing home, one of the resident "Marge" was looking preoccupied one day. We got to talking and she said her son hadn't been by to see her that morning, and he ALWAYS came on Tuesday morning. I asked her when he was supposed to visit again, and she said, "Oh, he always comes Tuesday mornings and Thurday and Friday afternoon" I suggestest he maybe got busy and would be by on Thursday.
Well, Wednesday morning when I got to work, she just looked so upset I called the police to ask them to go by the house and check it out.
Yep, you guessed it.
He'd aparantly been dead since Monday.
We sat down together and I told her. Her son was in his 70's so in truth, after she got over the initial shock, she came to terms with it surprisingly quickly. For a while though, she'd say "I wish I'd called him on Monday. I know it wouldn't have made any difference, but I wished I'd called him."
I felt really guilty for not calling the police when she first said something, and told her. Again, not like that would have made any difference, but I wish I'd called them.
To everyone out there. If you don't see someone, young or old, for a while, make that call. Don't be embarrassed.