Ebrown, bear with me here, this could be one of those cases in which Email is just tough to communicate with and we're actually taliking about the same thing, but not recognizing it yet.
For the sake of argument, let's increase the values here to make a more compelling visual example. Instead of an 8 minute travel time to the Sun, lets say that the Sun was 12 hours away at light speed (I'm splitting a 24 hour day just for convenience, and assuming equatorial and equinox values just to eliminate variations from the analogy).
And now let's say that we're watching sunrise in the East. But the light we are seeing left the sun 12 hours ago, so we know where the sun must really be: setting in the west.
Your first sentence: "Here is how I see it. (Assuming the photon leaves the sun when the sun is directly overhead)," isn't specific. It doesn't say whether the Sun is *actually* overhead, or is simply *perceived* overhead. And that difference in meaning matters a lot to the rest of the argument.
The fact is that we *perceive* the Sun as being in a different location that in *actually* is due to the travel time of light. If this were not true, then the same thing would not apply to other stars, and it does. Many of the stars we see at night do not even exist any more, nor are they *where* we see them if we were to shoot an "infinitely" fast rocket at them. All we are seeing are the echoes of where they were sometime in the past. The same applies to the Sun, only it's 8 minutes away, instead of 80 million years away.
The discussion turned out to be trickier than I had anticipated. Very fun
Thanks everyone
Best Regards,