relaTive (Rochester, John Wilmot, 2d earl of, 1647-80, English poet and courtier, b. Ditchley, Oxfordshire is an indirect ancestor of mine - my son has Wilmot as a 4th name!)
Think we need to back up to Rochester
but doesn't RELATIVE relate to Charlotte Bronte which doesn't have an R as in Rochester?
No, it relates to Rochester; he is my relative.
oops deleted wrong thread