Chai Tea wrote:No, I don't worry about it at all. I have no fear of being alone, because, well, it just doesn't scare me.
[..] Somewhere along the line, I just really started enjoying solitude. I'm an introvert and being with people drains me.
Thats not what I was talking about, though.
I also like being alone. Even though I've been starved for more contacts here, especially lately, I still said "no" to an SMS asking to go to a concert at 6 tonight, because I was also already going to the museumnight from 8 on, and I just cant / dont want to cope with an overload of people around me for too long a time on end. I too "like my solitude", as djjd put it, I too need my time alone.
But - thats something else from keeping "moving on" from experiences, people, in life and in so doing not building up a reliable social network that will simply be there. Also when things not going so great.
Who's going to be there for you, once you've finished moving on, and you fall sick? Become old and dependent? Only your Significant Other - if even (s)he? Thats the part I was talking about scaring me.
Its all fine and dandy being able to be "complete and at home in onself" if you're 35 or 45, in good health, with a job and/or a spouse -- I'm scared of ending up without any friends I havent "moved on" from when all's said and done, and I'm not that age anymore, and dont have my health, job and/or spouse anymore. You know?