I don't know why the two earring thing puts a frost on the
sincerest turn on over the one earring thing for me.
One earring will cause me to take the second, more intense
look.
I like the SMALL single gold hoop, with or without intricate designs, and the almost invisible, dot of diamond. Like the Monroe diamond dot (flat to the skin), as well.
Truly tantalized by something smallish but decorative and unique through the upper ear cartilage. Not ALL of those, but one, maybe two.
Interesting to hear everybody's preferences.
I begged my husband to get an earring years ago. Nothing doin.