Ellpus, dear, you're on the right track. Don't use the "At a Glance," "New Posts" or "Unanswered" buttons. Just go directly to the Forum Index and pick which subjects you want to see.
I've been doing that practically forever, so I rarely even see what's going on in S&R or Politics (unless I'm really bored.)
(Of course, then I'm REALLY bored.)
Glad you guys are enjoying Sophie's pastries. We're so lucky to have her at the Wine Cellar. She heard we needed comfort food, so she sent over plenty for everyone. Help yourself to another!