@BillRM,
You are being irrational.
We have armed police men respond to domestic violence calls because very often and these calls the women and children involved are in real risk to their safety. In my opinion in these cases the police should have guns and they should be willing to use the guns what cases where they are needed to protect the life and safety of the children their mother or the officer.
In this case you have a armed man with a felony sex assault warrant who is refusing to comply with police. Your solution is to let this suspect ride away with young hostages as the mother screams "he has my kids".
Maybe your solution is better. And, maybe this is the decision you would have made if you were in this situation and needed to make a split-second decision.
I don't think your harsh judgment of this police officer who actually needed to make this decision it is it all valid. Nor should this judgment be made on the basis of an ideological narrative.