@Linkat,
Quote:Not sure the way to handle this - but I know it is not allowing police officers to kill someone who is at the time - not a threat. I think if there is a way to change the mentality some how - maybe not to report someone in the traditional sense - but that it would be ok and they would feel safe for a fellow police officer to step in when something like this is going on and say Hey stop you are going too far,
I rather agree. It requires cultural change, even while is driven by everyday human skills & reactions to conflict & abuse. The only way I see it changing is for police departments to put in place institutionalised support for cultural change - that is, mandatory & regular:
- mental health resilience training (how to process abuse, how to let it go, etc)
- training in communication
Mental health reslience is self explanatory, but most people, I daresay police included, don't
understand the need to treat
everyone with respect in conflict situations - which is much of what police do. It would be too tempting too talk down to a criminal, rather than firmly and respectfully tell them off. The truth is, I've never seen disrespect achieve anything...except generating dislike. If done often enough, it generates hate...then further down the line - preparedness to do violence. And in todays world, it appears to me that 'berating' someone respectfully is a rather lost art.
But growing peoples mental health resilience, and improving their communication is not a 'one day training' bandaid exercise. Actual achievement of it would require regular (or prolonged) training, which would require large budget increases. I'm not sure how many departments have such, so we get what we get...and try and put bandaids on it.
I don't think it's as a pretty picture. Still, a bandaid is better than nothing, and should help (some), just so long as it is recognised as a bandaid, rather than an actual fix.