@izzythepush,
I write on Medium (it's a platform where members can submit articles for public consumption). Recently there was an interaction in a comments section between myself and a black lady who had been posting some very mean things about Meghan Markle.
I had confronted her and told her exactly that - that what she was posting was just senselessly nasty and bitter toward Markle. I added that she has had to endure that kind of thing from white people on both sides of the pond, but when I see it coming from other women of color, it takes on an added creepy aspect. t\
There's evidently some deep resentment in the hearts of some black women about the apparent ease with which Markle was able to navigate in and out of white society.
Here's the gist of what I told the Black woman who was sniping at Markle.
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This is a nasty, petty kind of sniping. It’s uncalled for.
I don’t have any particular reason to defend Meghan Markle. To be honest, she wasn’t even someone I was aware of until she started being in the news for marrying Harry.
But **** - what did she do to earn all the gratuitous hate? I guess I could understand it if she had been out here actively denying or trying to hide her black mom. But all I could find was articles like in Elle in 2016, where she talks about the difficulties of growing up biracial.
https://www.elle.com/uk/life-and-culture/news/a26855/more-than-an-other/
One of the things she shares in that article was about encountering racism when she was out with her mother.
She wasn’t trying to “pass”.
She told any and everyone who asked that she was half black and half white. She may have gotten acting parts because of her “white” features, but that’s the colorism of our media and entertainment industries, not the calculations of Markle.
My ethnicity is Black/Filipino. I have always identified as black - that was what always seemed natural to me. But if others have struggles with their identity because of being biracial, I have learned to try to be a little understanding. This world doesn’t always make your path as clear as mine was.
Like I said, it would be a whole different thing if Markle had been quoted denying her black bloodline, or trying to claim that she was all Caucasian. She never did.
The level of bitterness directed at Meghan Markle from white people is a damn shame. But it’s a special kind of creepy when that mindless hatred is coming from other women of color.