@izzythepush,
izzythepush wrote:
I've got too much to do for that.
But not enough to do to keep you from starting yet another arguement just for arguements sake.
Since we are thousands of miles apart, our language obviously has differences.
Me? I would say "will", not "can" as it's entrenched in me that "can" is asking "are you able", not if you're willing to do, and then will actually do.
To my ears, using "will" doesn't sound stilted, it just sounds correct.
"Can" sounds a little careless, and non specific.
I think I hear "Will you please...." and "Would you please" a lot more often, especially among adults than "Can" or "could". That is, if that person actually wants something accomplished.
In our increasingly wishy washy culture here, where the worst thing in the world is to cause even the slightest offense to absolutely anyone, people use "could quite a bit as a way avoiding even the hint of implying they would actually like to have something accomplished. Because that would actually be saying you'd like someone to do/not do something that is going to cause severe mental anguish, in the form of not doing exactly what you want every given second of the day.
If it's not that way in BE, cool. If the OP prefers BE, super cool.
However it's said in either land, I believe "will" or "would" is correct and is actually saying what is meant.
I guess that's all I have to say about that.