Immediately after the big bang (think time scales of a trillionth of a trillionith of a trillionith of a second) all existence had the form of energy, not matter. It was way too hot for matter to form for a long time after the big bang.
In fact energy levels or temperatures were so hot that the four forces we experience everywhere today (electromagnetic, gravity, strong and weak nuclear forces) in our relativistic universe (one generally obeying Einstein's laws) according to theory where combined into one force called quantum gravity.
A universe ruled by quantum gravity rather than the four forces has very different rules of physics.
As the Universe expanded it cooled. Certain propers of SuperSymmetry (or SuSy) don't let the quantum gravity exist once average temperatures drop so when energy levels fall much below a stupendous 10 ^ 19 GeV - so the dominant forces of reality start splitting apart - a phase change occurs - and their (the four forces) rules of physics start to dominate the existence of the Universe.
Big Bang
So theory goes big bang -> hyper inflation (spacetime unfolded faster than gravity could propogate to stop it, at least 50,000 times lightspeed) -> at time < 10 ^ -34 seconds after the big bang the universe was the size of a basketball, by then it had cooled sufficiently for the four forces to seperate and relativity - with a constant speed of light, to start governing, but by this stage the Universe was way too big and fast expanding for emerging gravity on the right side of the basketball sized universe to every reach the left side of universe and vice-versa.
The creation event begining with quantum gravity physics left about 70% of the Universe casually disconnected under relativistic physics (gravity nor any other force carrier from one side of the Universe can never reach the other).
Some nice piccys here might help chart what happened
http://particleadventure.org/particleadventure/frameless/chart_print.html
especially
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http://particleadventure.org/particleadventure/frameless/chart_cutouts/universe_original.jpg