@harpazo,
harpazo wrote:
I move out on 10/17 to start my new life.
....and potentially get someone else in trouble by your whims.
You can't have things both ways.
Saying some black and white thing like "what's right is right and what's wrong is wrong", and then throwing 50 shades of gray in there making it all right for you to report her "if" she doesn't give you your money back.
That's "what's right is right is I get what I what, but she's wrong and I'm right based on if I don't like what happens."
That's the same premise as your: It's wrong for men/boys to sexually harrass females "unless" the female is dressing in a way you personally deem inappropriate. The level of appropriateness of course varies widely based on the "rightness" of the situation, and must be adhered to by the female, since she obviously knows what situations men are able to control themselves in, and in what situations they can't.
So instead of what's right is right and what's wrong is wrong, you want to make it all conditional on what suits you, or is convenient to people who don't want to be responsible for their actions.