@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
- I agree with you that I have the ability to regulate my own sexuality better than government or anyone else. I do just that.
So you get the basic premise of liberty, then. But now can you also see that there is another kind of freedom that doesn't live up to the self-governance ideal assumed in liberty?
There are some people who can be left alone in a bank vault and never steal a penny, even if they are 100% they could get away with it. Such people are a testament to the ideal of liberty.
Then there are other people who see freedom from governance as an opportunity to get away with things they know are wrong/bad/harmful.
Many of those people don't just seek opportunities to get away with wrong/bad/harm, but they also generate their own forms of moral reasoning that aren't truly oriented toward achieving the highest moral standards they can come up with, but rather they are oriented toward rationalizing things they want to get away with.
These are subtle differences in the way freedom is (ab)used, but can you see that in one case, the premise of liberty is honored, while in the other it is betrayed?
You may say that different people can have different philosophies of morality, religions, denominations, etc. and the freedom of religion was meant exactly to honor the unique relationship each individual/church as with God/Truth, but the assumption is that people will use their freedom for good and not evil; so it's a difficult thing in modern times that so many people have come to abuse freedom as providing them an opportunity to shirk moral self-realization instead of pursuing it.
I'm sure there were always such shirkers, but somehow the founding fathers expected them to be born again when the constitution enshrined their liberty to govern themselves by their own highest standards.
Quote:- I agree with you that the government should get involved in cases of rape or sexual harassment. I don't believe the government should be involved in regulating consensual sex.
In democracy, different people with different POVs deliberate their differences in an attempt to come up with laws and policies that satisfy everyone's conscience and sense of justice.
You can't expect that everyone will agree with your views on consensual sex any more than anyone could expect you to agree with their views on some other issue.
Quote:- I agree with you that I have to take responsibility for any risk I accept. This is true when I have sex. This is also true when I get behind the wheel of a car.
What do you think it means to "take responsibility?" When you drive, there's a risk you will damage property and you will take responsibility for any property you damage by fixing or replacing it. Now, many things are assumed in legitimating the view that risk-taking is responsible if you're willing to fix/compensate damages.
E.g. what if someone says they don't mind paying extra for insurance so they can text while driving? What about paying extra to drink and drive? Where do you draw the line on what level of risk people can take by taking responsibility for harm they cause?
Quote:- I don't really understand the last part. Every person has responsibility for their own actions. Some people like down hill skiing. Some people like to drive fast. Some people like to sky dive. Some people like to pick apples. Some people like to have sex.
Not exactly. Some people truly put in their best effort to figuring out what they should and shouldn't do to be the best person they can be. If they discover that they are doing something that they should stop doing to become a better person, they make the sacrifice even if it is difficult and they aren't successful right away. Other people don't want to make such sacrifices, so they just rationalize continuing to do things and/or they avoid reflecting on whether they should stop for some reason.
Quote:I personally think that living your life to "avoid risk" is unreasonable. Life is meant to be lived, and avoid risks means you won't travel, or dance or go sledding or eat sushi.
Surely there are some risks you consider too great, even though you might really enjoy partaking in the activity.
Quote:Liberty means that you get to make these decisions for yourself. So I won't judge. But that certainly isn't the way I choose to live my life.
No, liberty is the ideal that people will be as good at governing themselves as any good government would be in steering them right.
As long as people are honoring this ideal of liberty in their personal lives, the government is supposed to allow them to govern themselves. The government is even supposed to avoid intervening when intervention is warranted, in order to give people a chance to self-correct.
Absolute autonomy is not something that liberty can protect, however, because there is simply the possibility of people failing at liberty, i.e. failing at taking adequate responsibility for their actions. The function of democracy is to establish laws/policies for when and how to intervene in cases where people are failing to govern themselves adequately.