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Mon 17 Dec, 2018 05:50 am
My bf of several years and I really love each other but we have had our ups and downs.
We are at or near retirement age but plan on working a few more years.
He is pressuring me to move in my home and marry.
He is very jealous in terms of me meeting someone else. I have dated others during some of our breaks but he knows I love him and give him no reason to be jealous.
He is a loving and kind guy but he has very limited funds and I’ve saved for my retirement and am comfortable.
I’ve already been warned not to live with him because of the possibility I may end up supporting him or worse but I’m finding that I cannot take the action of leaving him. Maybe it’s guilt or fear of the unknown and I still love him.
My head and heart are at complete odds.
I’m also concerned he is asking me to live and marry because he is jealous more than anything else.
Any suggestions?
@Scaredtomove,
Oh, honey, you've gotten your answer dozens of times:
https://able2know.org/topic/484935-1#post-6744574
Oh, and another thing. Your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you because of jealousy. He wants to marry you because you've got a nice cash cushion for retirement and he does not. He will suck you dry of funds if you let him. But I know you don't want to hear that. So keep on sticking your fingers in your ears, "La la la, I can't hear you." and don't be surprised if you wake up one day, your savings are gone, and he's moved onto another wealthy (or at least wealthy to him) sucker woman.
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