Acquiunk wrote:No language is inaccessible, all human are capable of learning any language, if they want to take the time and effort (and that is the problemÂ…time, effort and desire)
I tried to keep it simple, but this is really sticking in my craw. I have put untold time and untold effort into being able to communicate verbally with hearing people. I am, by the standards of the Deaf community, extraordinarily skilled, and also have many advantages that most people do not. I was hearing for a long time, and can still speak quite understandably. (Most people only think I have an accent, not that I am deaf.) I had frequent ear infections as a child and learned to lipread. I am very, very, good at it.
Yet my life is a constant, unending stream of frustrations and exclusion. I choose it anyway. I don't plan on moving to Laurent. But with all of my advantages, I am exhausted after a session of chatting with my daughter's playmate's mom. I have no idea what the other moms on the playground are saying, whether I might have more of a connection with them. I have to sit there and grin uncertainly as my daughter chats with a hearing stranger in a grocery store -- what are they saying? Any casual interaction, with neighbors, people at the store, people I see on the street -- EVERYTHING takes enormous effort and is still hit and miss. Maybe I'll understand -- quite possibly I won't. And if I don't, then what? Smile and nod neutrally? Keep asking them to repeat as their smiles fade and irritation mounts? Get out a pad of paper and see the smiles freeze and the "oh the poor girl" expressions come out?
And you say that with a time and effort and
desire (is there anything I desire more???) I should be able to overcome that?
Your understanding of this issue is sorely lacking.