@shyguygamer1,
shyguygamer1 wrote: When I told him what the pastor told me, how it's hard to love my neighbor when I dont love myself, he didnt know what that meant, and asked me what it meant, and I didn't know either.
the therapist was trying to help you figure it out for yourself
therapists aren't supposed to answer questions for you - they're supposed to help you learn how to function better on your own
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get yourself set up with a local therapist and psychiatrist and keep working at it