@engineer,
as far as what I said, I said I wasn't sure if I had done something illegal regarding a girl. They began asking a bunch of questions like, if I threatened her, which I didn't so I said no. if I had ever enticed her, asked her to hang out outside of church, teased her...I said no to all of these but later on thought maybe the teasing part was true but I wasn't really sure, certainly not in any romantic way, but I never asked her to hang out or enticed her in any way.
They also asked why I kept going back to the police instead of mental health (I had gone back 3 times between there and mental health). At first they asked if it was because I wanted another ride up, I said I don't know, then they asked if it was because I cared about her, and I didn't say anything because I didn't know if that was it. Then they asked if I could let her go, I said yes. Then if I would give up everything for her, and I said yes (because I felt guilty). Then they asked if she said she was leaving and never coming back, would I let her...I said it would be hard but yes. Then they asked me what her middle name and birthday were, which I only knew her birthmonth...which i didn't know why this was relevant. I showed the police our conversation on facebook and they looked at it and they said I haven't said anything wrong and that I haven't crossed a line.
Basically, I think the whole police thing probably just made things far worse than they were.