@steven bill,
You come here and immediately start posting on pretty much every thread there is, resurrecting a lot of long dead ones in the process, in the most part giving unwanted and in some cases damaging advice. You act like you're some sort of guru who's got the wisdom of the ages sewn up. At the same time your English skills are atrocious and you offer stale old aphorisms in the mistaken belief that it will make you appear deep and meaningful.
Then you get upset when people take issue with that. Have a word with yourself.