Are my drinks and food being spiked?

Hi guys, I need you opinions. This is a serious question and actually I'm pretty stressed right now I'm in panic mode.

I work in a hotel bar in a ski-resort. Now im doing summer season. My collegues are all international. I just came to realize that 3 of the employees got together. (apparently 2 bisexual guys and 1 bisexual woman) I just realized that they were and are trying to so to say turn me. I am 100% straight with a wife who I love to death and who is on an other continent right now until the end of my season.
They don't believe that I've got a wife etc. and theyre teasing me nonstop with it. I used to hang with them after work before I knew how they were standing. Many times I left drinks and snacks at their place which I picked up later next day and so on. I realized some changes in my mood and behaviour in the last 5 months. ( I worked here from December until April and now from April until end of August.)

They've been thinking that I'm bisexual I just haven't accepted it yet. They're 100% wrong. I know who I am and what I want. The woman works in the kitchen and sometimes brings me food. I think my food and drinks are spiked with feminime hormone tablets or something.

I was visiting my wife between the 2 seasons. She noticed that

- I sometimes don't feel like having sex with her (surprising concidering how much I love her, how hot she is, and how much time we spend away from eachother)
- I lost 4-5 kilograms even tho I've been training with dumbells.
- I am most of the time down, I don't feel motivated to do anything, I get tired fast, general exhaustion without any reason.
- Loss of apetite. Losing weight.

I also noticed that more and more often I take sitting positions that are really considered to be female legpositions. Sometimes as I gesticulate and notice what I'm doing with my hands I think to myself woow that looks super feminime.

These are some of the sympthoms of taking estrogen injection/pills for male.

I'm thinking of a conspiracy theory right now. Do you guys think it's possible that they've been giving me estrogen without my knowlege hoping that it would change me and make me more willing of joining them? I tried to research and find something about a topic people spiking others drink and food with feminime hormones but I didn't find anything.

Right now I'm thinking about having myself tested to show whether my hormones are in balance but I don't really know which doctor to go to.

I am curious about your opinions and observations.

I am so panicking right now.