Aww man. Awkward.
If you are her daughter, and I'm not saying you're not, I'm sorry you had to read that. I'm sorry your private family history became public knowledge. Your mother is all the things you've said. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
This must have been hard for you to read. Know that the vast majority of people on this site are good people, talking about a case of law and didn't mean to hurt you or your family.
Regardless, I think a hard lesson can be learned from this... sadly, that innuendo can hurt and children grow up. You can also take heart that the vast majority of people who heard about the lawsuit, have forgotten about it as well. Just as this thread was buried.
Again, I hope you can put this behind you. You sound like a really smart, caring and loving person. Your mom has done a great job!