@Greatest I am,
If you have doubts about God's wisdom and authority, why are you believing in Him?
Worshiping God is for His pleasure, not for your personal pleasure.
If you think that God made an error when designating a leadership to maintain order, then for you is wrong having presidents, congressmen, foreman, bosses and employees, because according to you everybody should be "equal".
You better understand that for maintaining order, a kind of authority must be present, otherwise, if everybody do what they please, chaos should be the result.
When Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, God was the leader and authority. After they were in exile and living by themselves outside the Garden of Eden, God designated man to have the leadership and authority.
The committed sin simply enforced the designation of authority of a man over her wife.
When your Church challenges the word of God, your Church becomes Satan's allied.