@Olivier5,
Sometimes, folk who are confronted with the reality of 'destitution' commence projects, groups, learning/rehab centres, websites, etc - Do so with the genuine intent of uniting folk (Founding a family, of sorts).
But 'bringing up baby' mindsets fade with time and distance from the 'destitution-confrontation'.
You are no longer babies in your relative cots - you are now no longer in need of nurture.
Robert's moved on - But he's left you the keys.
Just remember - Forums are virtual havens, but also make comfortable tombs.