The answer to this I have yet to hear. And it disturbs me greatly.
I ask it daily.
Perhaps the subject matter is to esoteric.
Judge for yourself.
Here it is.
"Who's a good boy?"
Oh, my, I had that said to me once, on a trip to Yosemite with girlfriends. I kept quiet.
When you are growing up, you tend to expect humans to understand things the same, at least re vision and smell and so on. 25 is still growing up, and so are much later years, always the learning.